It's been mostly really good. Regis is excited he will be starting work soon, which is awesome. We finally got to unpack our crap after almost two months of living out of our suitcases and sleeping in friends' or family members' spare bedrooms (Shout out to Scott, my brother Luke and Regis' parents!). We finally have our own bed - FYI, Ikea pillows are no bueno! The neighborhood we live in is really nice and it's close to a couple train stations and tram stops, so getting around is super easy. Another great bonus is a beautiful park is about a block away and we are REALLY close to the beach. Did you know the beach is my favorite thing ever? It basically is - Regis is a close second :)
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Caulfield Park - Complete with a cool duck pond! |
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St Kilda Festival |
I have almost gotten used to biking on the street here - it's absolutely something I never did in Charlotte, mostly because of the lack of both bike lanes and NC driver skills. Now I can bike to the beach in about 15 or so minutes, which will be great! I really like getting the cool beach vibe along with living in a huge city - Regis and I are both super ADD people that need lots of activity options and this place has not been disappointing thus far. Plus, PENGUINS! (Don't worry, there's a penguin picture in this post!)
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Valentines Day drinks! |
The fear of the unknown thing is a bit more difficult to put into words and is something I'm a bit hesitant to share - basically it's been something I have been dealing with since several months before we left. I'm going to start off by saying I am generally a super relaxed person and my motto has always been "worrying doesn't accomplish anything, so why bother".
I developed some pretty bad anxiety during the fall. I always used to think it was something that people made up for attention, but it is something a lot of people silently struggle with, and to be frank, kind of sucks to deal with. I had a few panic attacks at work, then a few outside of it that gradually got worse - it was quite miserable and I was terrified of how they were affecting me. To make a long story short - I went to the doctor, got a short term solution in the form of a medication I would normally never take and thought everything would magically go away when we got here.
It mostly did, but comes back every now and then when I worry about someone not calling for a job, or thinking of possible short term plans so I have some kind of backup, or our place STILL being on the market, or basically just freaking out in general about uprooting all of our shit and moving here - and everything I hoped went away will just start. I think until I begin and am adjusted to whatever job I'll end up with, it's going to be something I'll have to deal with. I guess I just wanted to vent about this because I'm sure my Instagram posts and snapchats of the beach make all my friends back home think everything is always perfect. Nope!
We chose to take this outrageously insane (but VERY planned out) risk, and I'm absolutely positive we're both going to look back at these struggles a year from now and say that this move is the best decision we've ever made.
I mean come on... PENGUINS, right? :)
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Adorable. |